It has been over 3 years now since the death of George Floyd sparked the flurry of justice and equality movements. God used this tragic event to show me places in my heart that needed a lot of work. Parts of my life ideologies that needed tweaking. He also challenged me to be more bold and call people to examine their own hearts. From that, I wrote this message. I challenge you to open your heart to what the Holy Spirit may say to you during this time. It may not be easy to hear, but to fully give and experience the love of Jesus, I think that the message of “Accept One-Another” in light of the racism, prejudice, inequality and pure hatred that is prevalent around the world is a necessary one.
Romans 15:5-7
“May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. “
” May the God who gives endurance and encouragement…”
These first few words do two things:
- Reaffirm who God is and what he has given us
- Give us a glimpse at what accepting others will be like
God gives endurance and encouragement. I can move into action knowing that God’s got my back.
God gives endurance and encouragement. The journey will not be easy…otherwise I would not need endurance or encouragement. I imagine those of you who have run marathons can relate to needing endurance and encouragement. These types of races hurt, they test the weakest parts of ourselves, they stretch even the strongest parts of ourselves. Some run to conquer the impossible. Some to support others. Some to get fit. Whatever the reason…it is the victory at the end that makes it worthwhile. And so it is with the hard parts of following God.
“May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had.”
As Jesus prayed before he went to the cross, he spent time praying for his disciples and for all believers to come. His words speak the attitude of mind that Christ has toward people.
John 17: 20-21 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.
He prays for our unity. He prays that through our unity, the world will know and understand God.
John 17:26 “I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.”
He prays that we would have God’s love. The attitude of mind Christ has towards others is unity and love. Therefore our words and actions should also strive to bring unity and love.
“… so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.“
To have one mind and one voice there is an incredible amount of work involved. we must actively surrender ourselves and we must actively accept others according to God’s direction. I know from experience that this is difficult. and I will touch on this later. All of this work is done solely to glorify God. The meaning of glorify is to “acknowledge and reveal the majesty and splendor of (God) by one’s actions.” And so, as I look at my life, and you look at yours, can we honestly say that we are acknowledging the splendor of God and revealing it to others as we live our daily lives?
“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you,…”
Accept one another…acceptance…
The dictionary has several definitions but these two stuck out to me.
1…finding something or someone suitable
2…the action of consenting to receive.
I think that this translates into how we accept people. When we truly accept someone we not only find them suitable…but we also consent to receive from them. When we consent to receive we acknowledge value. K, my son, loves to draw. On a typical day he will create 5 or more drawings each with a long and detailed story to go with them. Everyday he presents them to me as a gift, so excited to share with me. Now I have a choice. I can consent to receive these pictures and stories or I can say no thank you. I am not proud of this, but sometimes, I feel so overwhelmed by the amount of paper and listening acceptance would require, that I say no. And I can tell you that as soon as I refuse to receive from him, his sense of value shrinks. As such, when we consent to receive from another person, without critique or judgement, we are showing them that we value them. I believe that this is also God’s heart for the communities we are in. We are to accept others by being open to receive from them.
“As Christ accepted us…”
So many verses point to God’s acceptance of us as his family, but this is a difficult thing to imagine. The families we have in this world are so broken. But if you think of the best parts of families…the love, the care, the hospitality, the support, the consent to receive each persons viewpoint, gifts and talents…you can maybe glimpse how Christ has accepted us into His family.
I have had to ask myself…do I accept others like that? Do I look at the black man coming towards me and have only love, care, hospitality, and support for him? Do I consent to receive the experiences, words, songs, poems, ideology that he has to share with me? Do I look at the Indigenous woman with her children at the park and only want love, care, hospitality and support for her? Do I consent to receive the richness of the culture she brings with her? What is my response when I interact with people who are part of the LGBTQ2+ community? Do I look on them with the love, care, hospitality and support that Christ does? Do I consent to receive all the amazing talents, gifts, and stories that God has given them?
Even more so, do I consent to receive the pain that others have gone through? Will I listen to their stories and respond…”I believe you..” without judgment or trying to fix something? Will I accept the correction I am given when my privileged ways of seeing and doing hurt or devalue others? Do I accept that others have a different lens of God than I do and that they could show me new and wonderful things about Him?
I’m sad to say that I haven’t always accepted others. I have stayed silent as people were ridiculed. I have crossed the street to avoid contact with people who are different than me. I have talked to people with pre-conceived notions in my head about who they are and what their story is. I have tried to justify the actions of others to make them seem less hurtful to the marginalized or oppressed. These things were not right, and I am so sorry. In the past weeks and years, God has revealed so much of His heart for the marginalized and oppressed to me. I have been convicted by my actions or lack of action that have hurt others. I have confessed to God and where I am able I have confessed my sin to the people I have hurt. I am working to change. And now, I am calling you to do the same. Examine your heart. What is the Holy Spirit calling you to do?
Acts 10:34b-35 “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism but accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right.”
Christ accepted us with no favoritism. He does not look at us and rank us according to status or skin colour. He does not sort us into lesser sins and larger sins. No, he accepts us…period. As soon as we proclaim…we believe… he shouts in joy…I accept! No ifs, ands, or buts. No waiting to get it right or to line up our ducks. He simply accepts us.
Is that how we look upon others? Or do we sort people into “appropriate” and “inappropriate” boxes. How can we even do that…only Christ can see what really matters…
The heart.
So I wonder…how can you know a persons heart simply by seeing the colour of their skin? How can you know a persons heart simply by seeing a cultural tradition you don’t understand? How can you know a persons heart simply by observing who they love? Christ himself was deemed by the Pharisees to be inappropriate because he was hanging out with the adulterers, the prostitutes, the tax collectors, the foreigners, the servants. He was knowing their hearts…we need to seek to do the same.
Ask questions…listen to stories with open hearts…say “I believe you”…
And as we accept in these ways…as family…without favoritism…looking at the heart… I believe we will see a glimpse of heaven…the heaven described in Revelation 11. I will leave you with portions of that scripture.
“After this I looked, and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands. And they cried out in a loud voice:
“Salvation belongs to our God,
who sits on the throne,
and to the Lamb.”…
“…Then one of the elders asked me, “These in white robes—who are they, and where did they come from?…These are they who have come out of the great tribulation; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. Therefore,
“they are before the throne of God
and serve him day and night in his temple;
and he who sits on the throne
will shelter them with his presence.
‘Never again will they hunger;
never again will they thirst.
The sun will not beat down on them,’
nor any scorching heat.
For the Lamb at the center of the throne
will be their shepherd;
‘he will lead them to springs of living water.’
‘And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”